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Will you trust your lover again if you cheated one time?

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AGirlHasNoName · 26-30, F
Idk, firstly I would think why lover cheated, maybe it would be mine mistake, not him.
My father cheated my mom, but fault was her in fact, not him.
P.s.sorry for bad english
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@AGirlHasNoName How was it your mothers fault? She tripped him and he fell into a woman or something?
AGirlHasNoName · 26-30, F
@Keepitsimple nope, she just didn't love him, wasn't giving any atention to him. It's kinda long story 😁 once again, sorry for bad english
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@AGirlHasNoName There is no excuse for cheating....it is nobody's fault but that of the cheater themselves.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@AGirlHasNoName So did they get divorced? Lots of people are in that situation but it doesn’t make it right to sleep around.
AGirlHasNoName · 26-30, F
@indyjoe I respect your opinion, everyone have diferent opinions 😁
AGirlHasNoName · 26-30, F
@Keepitsimple yes, they divorced. My dad live with another woman, my mom works in another country and she is realy happy about it. So everything is just fine 🙃
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@AGirlHasNoName I’m glad it ended amicably at least.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@AGirlHasNoName Mine is more than just an opinion...having observed the pain and devastation that cheating causes and being one who has been cheated on myself, my reply is well informed. There are reasons people cheat that are understandable, and there are reasons that are just selfish and nonsensical, but cheating is wrong under any circumstances and any situation. Cheating is a choice...and people who say " It was an accident, I didn't mean for it to happen, it just did" are full of it. They put themselves into or chose to stay in a situation they may have found themselves in which infidelity would be a highly probable outcome. They know it is wrong and will hurt the one they love and damage/destroy their relationship/marriage. Yet they go ahead and go through with it. I am not saying that it isn't or can't be forgivable, but the trust is shattered and trust is on of the solid building blocks of a relationship...and when that is gone or extremely weakened at best, the relationship is never the same again and in many cases no longer exists.🤠
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@indyjoe Plain and simple The purity of the marriage is gone. You never look at that person the same way again.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@Keepitsimple Exactly.