If the one you love the most leavs you?
How would you manage yourself in this situation when someone you love the most leaves you?
26-30, M
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sharkfishter · 31-35, M
Very difficult situation to be in....been there, saw that and I was very hurt...wasn't able to focus in my day to day activities for almost an year...then I just shut off myself from social media, started making short goals in my life (something meaningful) and I managed to slowly and steadily focus on things that matter the most....I was back on track but I don't believe in Love any more ☹
Melpomene · 22-25, F
"It's ok, it's their choice. But they can't expect me to be there for them any time in the future".
I spent years longing for people that left me until I accepted it. It hurts like hell but life goes on and since someone who I loved and dedicated a lot of my time and attention to left, maybe it's time to meet new people or get a new hobby. It might not be the best thing to do, but life is to short to waste it by longing for people that clearly made their decision.
I spent years longing for people that left me until I accepted it. It hurts like hell but life goes on and since someone who I loved and dedicated a lot of my time and attention to left, maybe it's time to meet new people or get a new hobby. It might not be the best thing to do, but life is to short to waste it by longing for people that clearly made their decision.
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@Danny54268 I thought I couldn't live without someone, and for some time it felt like I really couldn't move on but then I noticed something: the world didn't collapse. My friends and family continued with their lives and even tried to help me continue mine, I still had responsibilities, I still had to work... he moved on and one thing I was certain is he didn't want me in his life. I had to force myself to work and keep on going while I had severe depression and after a couple of months I realised we are all still living our lives, just separately. You can't force someone to love you but you can find peace if you seek it and learn that you can only give love to the rest of the world and one day it'll all get back to you.
Mamapolo2016 · F
LilPuckBunny · F
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
Danny54268 · 26-30, M
@Beautywithin but in this situation you can't even focus on yourself
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
@Danny54268 you have to try, you survived before without this person you will do again
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
raysam363 · 31-35, F
It hurts, very badly. Especially when you've been together a while, and regardless of how the relationship actually went. You feel worthless and lost.
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raysam363 · 31-35, F
@Danny54268 The bad thoughts will permeate and linger for a long, long while. If your mind wanders, it will fall back to it. Anger, depression, anxiety, all of that will occur. Try to keep occupied.
Danny54268 · 26-30, M
@raysam363 I can't even sleep nowadays bro that's why going everywhere just for suggestions what to do or I'll be totally crazy ig
raysam363 · 31-35, F
@Danny54268 Force a hobby if you have to, rant and rave on anonymous sites, but just do NOT let your mind wander.
