Am I doing right?

My ex is in remorse after cheating on me with another girl. He left town and refuse to come back. I was angry with him but I found myself to forgive him. He asked for forgiveness and a second chance. He confessed everything and promised me that he would never do it again. I am in two minds: I love him and I want to take him back but I am not sure if he wouldn't do it again. He too don't expect me to take him back. I continue to support him as a friend for now because everyone including my family hates him for lying to a girl and cheating on me. Maybe I am a fool to do this but I want to help him till he get back to his feet. Although he tells me he wants me, I don't expect an happy ending with him either.

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suyash2510 · 26-30, M

I was once in the same position as you are rn, I chose to do what you're doing and it finally led to an even bigger breakup. I'm not saying you're wrong to do what you're doing but everything comes with a risk. I hope things work out for you.

caccoon · 36-40

If I were you, I'd break ties with him. He is not your child or responsibility. If you want to be happy and start fresh, he needs to be left in the past.

Personally, I don't think there is a future with cheaters. Not necessarily because they will cheat, but simply because you will probably always wonder if they will or are. The trust will likely be gone or very hard to repair.

Khenpal1 · M

no big deal, be open minded about relationships with others.

Montanaman · M

Go with your heart, everyone deserves a second chance.
Although some will say, once a cheater, always a cheater.
Love is too precious to turn your back on.
-The wisdom according to MM.💞

revenant · F

you are too nice

bijouxbroussard · F

Yes, I think it’s foolish to invest any more energy towards someone who broke your trust. But it’s something some women seem to have to do. Hopefully this “friendship” won’t lead to you being drawn back in and hurt again. 😒

Tminus6453 · M

You're a fool if you take him back

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