What would you do if you found out the person you've been recently dating for a while now

Had a terrible illness that only gave them a couple months left to live from then on? And you think they are really awesome person and like them quite a lot but it hasent been quite long enough for you to say they are your soulmate/love of your life or something.

Also no this isn't happening to me I'm just a weird person asking a deep ass question cause I'm bored and curious on what people think.

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Grateful4you · M

This actually happened to me. Dead at age 34 due to a genetic disease, the hardest emotional time I've gone through.

Cooper802Forever · 22-25, M

@Grateful4you Aww I'm sorry to hear, hope this post didn't bring up any hard emotions.

SwampFlower · 31-35, F

My husband was kind of in that position. He asked me to marry him. 🤷

SW-User

aww, that's depressing to think about, but I know how you feel cause i think those questions alot.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

Really depends how long the two been together

SW-User

If I loved them I’d stay with them.

PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M

If I'm single and they are an awesome person, irrespective of whether I find them to be my soulmate or not, I'd go for it.

Even if they aren't the "love of my life", they are an awesome person, and a couple of months of my life is a small price to pay to give a great person a good time for the short while they have left.

Cooper802Forever · 22-25, M

@PirateMonkeyCabinet Aww that's nice. I kinda feel the same...as long as I knew they were an awesome person and we got along together well. (Like us liking each others company.) I'd want them to know that I'm here for them till the end. 😁

PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M

@Cooper802Forever Aye. Of course, not gonna pretend that the period of grief afterwards would be easy. It would be quite tough. So in a way it would cost more than just the "couple of months" they have left.

If I was on the other side of that table, I'd fully understand if someone didn't want to get involved with me if I had a short time left. Not everyone is cut out for it. Not everyone is able to deal with it. Absolutely okay, nothing wrong with that.

But again, to me, it is a price worth paying if it means their last months are good.

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