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Have you lost contact with a person who once was your best friend?

What happened?

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destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

Funny I should read ur post, I now came online with the intent to look for someone who I have lost contact with...

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rjc36 · 61-69, M

Hopefully you will be able to find them and start rebuilding your friendship. @destinyfabulous

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@rjc36 remaining hopeful... He's from Syria and I wanna know if he's ok...I miss him.😢

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@destinyfabulous you will find him sometime. Iam sure he thinks of you too.

indyjoe · 56-60, M

He died tragically in a car accident back in January of 1988 just before we both were to turn 21 (me in April and him in August)...it's hard to believe that was nearly 32 years ago.

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destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@indyjoe sorry to hear..dealing w the loss of a loved one is never easy...i love that his memory lives on in ur household....hugs

indyjoe · 56-60, M

@destinyfabulous Thank you. I've only had two people in my life that I consider my best friend...He was a childhood best friend and is gone, but the other is my wife and I see (as well as cherish her) every day.

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@indyjoe even tho it's kinda sad its actually cool that you had such a good frien. One that you'll remember all your life that's wonderful.

rjc36 · 61-69, M

Yes unfortunately. He and I worked together for a while and he felt I was being competitive but was just doing my work the best I could. The company decided to move and I was retained for a while and he was not. I do miss him as a friend and the good conversation we use to have.

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@rjc36 why not try catch up?

rjc36 · 61-69, M

@ramgopal I did make an attempt but a lot has changed since then. I don't think they want to be friends anymore. Sometimes we just have to deal with their decisions.

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@rjc36 yes all for the best

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

Kinda sorta. She got married and moved outta state. I only see her once a year now. 😔

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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@quitwhendone You’re welcome. 😊

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@SimplyTracie oh my that escalated quickly 😆😆

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@ramgopal 😂😂😂

SW-User

Yeah. Someone was talking shit about me and she was worried that she would look bad by association. So she just stopped talking to me for a while. She apologised a few months later, but it was never the same because I knew that she would never stand up for me or have my back. She ended up replacing me with some other girl.

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@SW-User that must've hurt. But better off with people who'd out you down

Heartlander · 80-89, M

Yes. A few, and when went looking I discovered they were all deceased :(

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Heartlander · 80-89, M

@SimplyTracie Heart attack at a very young age.

We both just followed wherever the wind took us. I don't know why we never wrote or called one another. Like took it for granted that he was still there, and we could easily pick up where we left off.

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@Heartlander A lesson we can all learn from.

Heartlander · 80-89, M

@SimplyTracie

Yes.

Maeglin · 46-50, M

Yes. I
In the end he only stayed 'friends' with me because he was a guitarist and I was the only drummer he knew. But as soon as he met a better drummer he abandoned me.

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ramgopal · 31-35, M

@Maeglin you a good guy. Just ignore people like this.

Maeglin · 46-50, M

@ramgopal thank you, I do. Every body leaves eventually

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@Maeglin yes a sad fact and that hurts

SW-User

Yes... not sure about “best” but definitely close and I cut them off.

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ramgopal · 31-35, M

@SW-User we have to live on without that negativity

SW-User

@ramgopal absolutely...I tried several times to no avail...

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@SW-User in the end we need to take care of ourselves so what you did was for your good.

Tanoos · 41-45, F

yes..really I lost because I borrow some money and can't give back still !! but sure withing 2 months I will be back and start again our friendship

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@Tanoos hope that happens.let your friendship blossom again

Tanoos · 41-45, F

@ramgopal 😍

DisturbOne · 41-45, M

One got life
Another was taken but drugs and had a mental break
And another well idk what happened.

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@DisturbOne oh. 😔😔😔. Hope you'll find someone who'll be your best bud

DisturbOne · 41-45, M

No worries bro I got friends still lol . @ramgopal

RubySoo · 56-60, F

He cut me off. His life changed....he changed. He just didnt want or need me around anymore

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@RubySoo some people forget stuff fast

SW-User

They went fundie

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ramgopal · 31-35, M

@SW-User don't you have any contact after that incident?

SW-User

@ramgopal they ditched me

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@SW-User some people are bad people. Nothing more can be done.

BeefySenpie · M

Yes. It started with an argument

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@BeefySenpie didn't end well. Did you try sort it out

BeefySenpie · M

@ramgopal I did, to no avail

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@BeefySenpie I've seen a few of that.

NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

Yes. Life happened.

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@NeuroticByNature life ain't fair

NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

@ramgopal no its not. Sometimes you make it what though.

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@NeuroticByNature yeah I meant sometimes life ain't fair

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ramgopal · 31-35, M

@SW-User 😟

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midnightsun · 26-30, M

Zonuss · 46-50, M

Some. But the ones I want are always around and very loyal as I am to them. 🙂

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@Zonuss lucky you 😊😊

NudasPriest

Two moved away, one died.

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@NudasPriest sorry about that. You'll always find a nice friend somewhere

NudasPriest

@ramgopal Thanks. I have a new best friend ... on here.

ramgopal · 31-35, M

@NudasPriest see. Haha iam happy you have one 😁😁

DDonde · 31-35, M

Yes. We drifted apart

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