Is it okay for a 23 year old guy and 40 year old woman to be married?
I mean if they really love each other.
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Dainbramadge 路 56-60, M
@GardenSage I just looked up the word because I was under the impression that it just meant having an age preference. Like a younger girl liking older men type thing. But you are right. Liking kids.
GardenSage 路 36-40, M
Yes there are other specific definitions too.. like hebephelia and epheboelia
These more accurately describe Mr. Epstein @Dainbramadge
These more accurately describe Mr. Epstein @Dainbramadge
Dainbramadge 路 56-60, M
@GardenSage I didn't get that far into it. I just saw the pedo part. Maybe I will read it in full. Even tho I can imagine the meanings. LOL
Dainbramadge 路 56-60, M
Dainbramadge 路 56-60, M
@WendyLopez43 well I personally think kids are life's brass ring. The real reason for relationships. Just me tho.
WendyLopez43 路 26-30, F
@Dainbramadge neither one of them want that responsibility.
Dainbramadge 路 56-60, M
@WendyLopez43 Not to judge but that is to bad. They really are fun to raise and relatively easy believe it or not.
Do they have a dog?? It's just a touch more responsibility than raising one of those.
My kids were easy. If they cry.. hungry or full diaper or occasionally gas.
When they giggle it tickles your heart.
Ha ... I guess it isn't you so why am I writing all this to you?? LOL
I just think kids are the best and they bring out the best in parents. Well... most parents.
Do they have a dog?? It's just a touch more responsibility than raising one of those.
My kids were easy. If they cry.. hungry or full diaper or occasionally gas.
When they giggle it tickles your heart.
Ha ... I guess it isn't you so why am I writing all this to you?? LOL
I just think kids are the best and they bring out the best in parents. Well... most parents.
rckt148 路 61-69, M
I have had 2 women older then I
and 3 much younger
The older ones assumed 3 years made them wiser ,they acted like I needed them to tell me which clothes to wear and which road to take ,nothing I did was wise ,I needed to rely on their experience .
For a time ,I was a star and women chased after me
and a few were half my age
The excitement you feel at a concert kind of fades after you hear me play that same song over and over ,and again at practice
Singing a hit song until you're sick of it ,so like to much cake
after a while they get sick of it
No time for doing anything because you're always on the road ,away from family and friends ,,same stage ,same people night after night
So its not so much the age as it is compatible life styles
When you do something you don't enjoy just for the sake of "Love "
after a while it gets old
And face it ,,a 40 yr old and a 20 yr old come from different worlds
I am stable ,have a constant income ,some say I am still handsome
But I am boring as hell ,,
When I was not preforming I wanted to party with friends or rest
Not have a young girl pulling on me none stop (I am sure its the same vice versa )
"Hold me ,,pet me "we used to make love 10 times a day ,,now I am lucky if its once a week ..(damn girl I'm tired ,and I can't keep up with you ,I'm old )
It has its pro's and cons ,,and with a male ,its visual
She might be happy she has a young man
But when he has to start taking care of her ,,and she looks like grandma
and he is still young ,,well you do the math
and 3 much younger
The older ones assumed 3 years made them wiser ,they acted like I needed them to tell me which clothes to wear and which road to take ,nothing I did was wise ,I needed to rely on their experience .
For a time ,I was a star and women chased after me
and a few were half my age
The excitement you feel at a concert kind of fades after you hear me play that same song over and over ,and again at practice
Singing a hit song until you're sick of it ,so like to much cake
after a while they get sick of it
No time for doing anything because you're always on the road ,away from family and friends ,,same stage ,same people night after night
So its not so much the age as it is compatible life styles
When you do something you don't enjoy just for the sake of "Love "
after a while it gets old
And face it ,,a 40 yr old and a 20 yr old come from different worlds
I am stable ,have a constant income ,some say I am still handsome
But I am boring as hell ,,
When I was not preforming I wanted to party with friends or rest
Not have a young girl pulling on me none stop (I am sure its the same vice versa )
"Hold me ,,pet me "we used to make love 10 times a day ,,now I am lucky if its once a week ..(damn girl I'm tired ,and I can't keep up with you ,I'm old )
It has its pro's and cons ,,and with a male ,its visual
She might be happy she has a young man
But when he has to start taking care of her ,,and she looks like grandma
and he is still young ,,well you do the math
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BondGirl84 路 36-40, F
butterfly1013 路 26-30, F
WendyLopez43 路 26-30, F
@butterfly1013 I know the guy and he said she's the best thing to happen to him.
butterfly1013 路 26-30, F
@WendyLopez43 I hope so. It can start out that way of course, but it might not always be like that. Usually, eventually one or the other will want out. Not saying that's for his case, but age gap relationships/marriages..the majority at least don't lasts from what I have saw or they tend to have waayy to many heated disagreements. I wish him/ them the best though. It's just I don't know it's kind of offputting to me... but go for it I guess.
WendyLopez43 路 26-30, F
@butterfly1013 I think it'll work out, they have good romantic chemistry.
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antonioio 路 70-79, M
Yes
But its their own business
But its their own business
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Beautywithin 路 36-40, F
Yes why not ?
GardenSage 路 36-40, M
Shit yea
SW-User
Yes !!! Lol
Sure.
DunningKruger 路 61-69, M
Sure.
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WendyLopez43 路 26-30, F
@RogueLoner neither of them want kids
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