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On a scale of 1-10 how important are looks to you when looking for a bf/gf?

Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
It matters of course. It all starts with chemistry. Although as I got older I realise there's more to a partner than looks alone
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It's how you generally first notice a person. But there also has to be connection between you, and chemistry
indyjoe · 56-60, M
I am with Wrenna on this one...Of course looks are important, it's important how a person looks to ME (not by any general opinion or standard). But there is a lot more to a person than their body just as there is much more to a happy and lasting relationship than sex. For me it's a lot more about who the person is (demeanor, personality, interests, mind-set, beliefs, and so on), if I am attracted to her in those ways then her physical appearance falls easily into place...love perpetuates lust and not the other way around for me (and she doesn't have to be "perfect" for me to be turned on by her either). Initial interest is just that, an interest, that may get it started but it takes a lot more to keep that interest and grow it into attraction. It's a 4 or 5 for me also.
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If I don’t want to fuck the hell out of their body, they’re not the one. To make it short, I need to be attracted. There’s no number
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About a 4 or 3.
Im not very picky when it comes to looks anymore.
I dated hot guys and cute guys but they didnt last cause of their terrible personality and they treated me awful.Some also thought they were all it and were arrogant asf.

Found a cute guy now, but we chatted and got to like eachother before I even got to see what he looked like.
Personality and how they treat me is #1 from now on.
those who say it is not so important?
are deluding themselves
ask one who WAS attractive, [i]then suddenly wasn't[/i]
all the character in the world does not
stand a chance against [b]Hot[/b]
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@SatyrService I like what I like...no delusion neccessary. It's really about individual choice at the end of the day.
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@SatyrService Ive dated hot guys.
And they treated me awful.
If you're desperate enough then the looks part will win u over.
But I want the full package and Im worth more than some hot jerk😒
@SW-User agreed! ihave just seen soooo many attractive dickheds, get all the fun. while decent men go alone
full disclosure? i was pretty/hansom for many years, now not so, so I got some traction here
My buddy, goood lookin man.,, had an accident. not hideos but no longr pretty,, all his action dried right up
deadgerbil · 22-25
8 or 9. Pretty important.

A bad personality will disqualify them tho.
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@deadgerbil Thats high😰
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@deadgerbil Jesus Christ. Your crush must be hot af
deadgerbil · 22-25
@SW-User kinda is lol
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Less than 5.....
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5-8
And I mean being good grooming and neat in appearance.
Outword beauty means little to me.
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Maybe a 4. I feel like my standards aren't very high as long as I can look at them without cringing.
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Looks can get her half way there but it's who she is [i]inside[/i] that gets her all the way to my heart..
So, 5
Magenta · F
8. It's definitely an important [i]part[/i] of attraction.
missionfigdeluxe · 61-69, M
Not much I only look at the waist down
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Can’t foresee a romantic relationship with someone if I don’t find myself attracted to them. But looks are the surface that draws you in there has to be substance behind that to remain interested.
TheFragile · 46-50, M
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