Cheating what would you do

Having been repeatedly cheated on in my first marriage...cheating, even once, would be a deal breaker for me. I tried the talking and trying to forgive/save the marriage thing...but she lied to me as well as to our marriage counsellor (that she was sorry and wanted to save our marriage) the whole time and continued sneaking around behind my back. I am not a cheater, I've never believed that even if the reason is understandable that it is right, and I would not tolerate it.

[c=#7700B2]leave him.. cheating of any kind is a deal breaker for me..

he can look but not touch[/c]

First, I would try to calm myself down, to avoid doing anything hasty, stress-induced.
Then, maybe a week later I would brace myself for a long talk with my other half, being fully aware what are some possible consequences.
Talking is key here. As cheating is rarely an isolated event. There is always a deeper reason.

Throw them out as they were and change locks - unless .....

Slap him. Leave him.🤷🏻‍♀️

Dump him.

All they do is deny deny deny deny. Do u think Sen emotional affair is cheating? When ur itthey half talks to someone all day but barely u

Be surprised .. and happy for him and myself (i'd leave) 😄😄

Shag her bestie

To walk away with no fights, no name calling and no explanations for never looking back.
No exceptions, no one concivable "interpretation" if and when facts are known.
No restrictions to other one´s freedom but neither to this choice of mine.

I'd cease having sex with them after I confronted them. I'd also tell them to move out in 7 days and that they are paying for the entire divorce and any legal costs.

I couldn’t continue in the relationship. The male ego is stronger than love.

Leave and she will never see me again. Cheating is unforgivable.

Thank god and file for divorce without guilt

Talk to him about it.

Probably die of shock

It happened in a previous relationship I thought that then I was hurt. But if it were to happen with my husband I love him in a way I can’t relate to others. I trust him so deeply I believe the devastation to follow him betraying that trust would feel like I was being cracked open.