What do I do?

I am torn between two exceptional ladies. One I've been with for years, the other I've been seeing about a year. The one I've been with for years has been good to me and she's been there through it all. I admit sometimes I am not easy to live with, but she phenomenonly loves me. However, the lady I've been seeing about a year is quite remarkable herself; and she is more fun to be with.
So...how do I tell the first lady I've been with for years, that good ain't good enough?

BalmyNites · F

Although everything you say about the first lady sounds wonderful, to my mind if she was ‘the one’, you would not be looking at other women. Your heart is clearly not in it & you are not in love, so it would be kinder to do both yourself & her a favour & cut the ties now, rather than later, because you cannot stay with someone just because they are kind & have been good to you - even if you don’t end up with the latest one.

Peaceful · F

@Vendetta I kinda figured as much. So the newer one is going to be on her best behavior in hopes of you leaving the one you've been in a relationship longer with.
In other words, you haven't seen her true colors. She's still trying to win. Does that make sense?
So I would caution you about the second one.

Vendetta · 31-35, M

@PeacefulYes, my lady your brilliant point does not escape me. I shall proceed with caution.