What do I do?

I am torn between two exceptional ladies. One I've been with for years, the other I've been seeing about a year. The one I've been with for years has been good to me and she's been there through it all. I admit sometimes I am not easy to live with, but she phenomenonly loves me. However, the lady I've been seeing about a year is quite remarkable herself; and she is more fun to be with.
So...how do I tell the first lady I've been with for years, that good ain't good enough?

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Peaceful · F

Do they know about each other?

Vendetta · 31-35, M

@Peaceful The one I've being seeing for a year does know, but the 1st lady has no clue.

Peaceful · F

@Vendetta I kinda figured as much. So the newer one is going to be on her best behavior in hopes of you leaving the one you've been in a relationship longer with.
In other words, you haven't seen her true colors. She's still trying to win. Does that make sense?
So I would caution you about the second one.

Vendetta · 31-35, M

@PeacefulYes, my lady your brilliant point does not escape me. I shall proceed with caution.

Peaceful · F

@Vendetta and please go back through your memory banks and think of all the good things the first one has done for you, how she's been there for you and such. The grass usually isn't greener on the other side.
The grass is green because you water it.