At a party my boyfriend said that he really likes to watch porn and was talking about the types of porn he likes. Is it wrong of me to be hurt by this

It was during a drinking game
I wasn't hurt that he watches porn. I was hurt that he so brazenly speaks about it to everyone in the presence of me, his girlfriend

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quitwhendone · M

I think you shouldn't be hurt by it at all. All men and women still appreciate the attractiveness and sexiness of other members of the opposite sex when they are in a relationship. It wouldn't be normal for him not to. Not admitting it would be a lie.

And Liking porn has nothing to do with liking you. Most young guys (and young women) like porn and are turned on by it. His porn viewing can add to your sex life. You two should watch porn together. You should also tell him of the men in porn (or in non-adult films) and the actions in porn you like.

I think it's just being real, truthful and mature.