At a party my boyfriend said that he really likes to watch porn and was talking about the types of porn he likes. Is it wrong of me to be hurt by this

It was during a drinking game
I wasn't hurt that he watches porn. I was hurt that he so brazenly speaks about it to everyone in the presence of me, his girlfriend

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ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

No it’s not wrong of you that’s very mean of him. You sure he likes you?

basicgirl12 · 26-30, F

@ShaythePanTransMan ...no 😭 but thank you for the answer. 🤗

FORMERLYbatovn · 61-69, M

REDFLAG!!!!!!! if he does it now, as your relationship gets stronger, hes not gonna put it away.....REDFLAG!!!!!!

basicgirl12 · 26-30, F

@FORMERLYbatovn I don't mind if he watches porn it's a habit formed over years
It's almost unfair of me to try and break that
But at least, don't talk about it in front of everyone and your girl?

FORMERLYbatovn · 61-69, M

I wont comment on the hobby, but at least have the respect for your girlfriend to refrain from the subject completely in your presence

quitwhendone · M

I think you shouldn't be hurt by it at all. All men and women still appreciate the attractiveness and sexiness of other members of the opposite sex when they are in a relationship. It wouldn't be normal for him not to. Not admitting it would be a lie.

And Liking porn has nothing to do with liking you. Most young guys (and young women) like porn and are turned on by it. His porn viewing can add to your sex life. You two should watch porn together. You should also tell him of the men in porn (or in non-adult films) and the actions in porn you like.

I think it's just being real, truthful and mature.

TheeOriginalAmazingsEXLover · M

I agree with you view of the situation

JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M

Tell him it hurt you and to not do it again.

SW-User

I can understand that. You want his sexual energy to be focused on you. It's normal for you to be hurt.

basicgirl12 · 26-30, F

@SW-User I know it isn't
But what really bothered me was him talking about it in public in my presence

SW-User

@basicgirl12 if he likes pornography would you rather he keep it between just you two?

SooperSarah

Why are your feelings hurt? Are you embarrassed that other know he watches porn? Or are you insecure?

basicgirl12 · 26-30, F

@SooperSarah I'm upset that he doesn't understand despite being explained that how much he likes to watch other naked women isn't a topic I want to discuss or be privy to

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