mrbuddhawannabe · 56-60, M
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@mrbuddhawannabe Yes, we are very close
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@Fungirlmmm How can I show compassion to her after how she has treated me?
samanthasmokes · 36-40, F
@Jenni855
This may be difficult to hear but I'll share it anyway. It's time to put to bed the anger, the resentment, and possibly, the jealousy. Your kid needs adults who love him and who are examples of forgiveness and generosity. Best way I can think of this is to assure him that you love him and that he so very deserving of the love of others that come into his life.
And this includes, hard though it may be to swallow, this extends to your ex and his GF as well.
This may be difficult to hear but I'll share it anyway. It's time to put to bed the anger, the resentment, and possibly, the jealousy. Your kid needs adults who love him and who are examples of forgiveness and generosity. Best way I can think of this is to assure him that you love him and that he so very deserving of the love of others that come into his life.
And this includes, hard though it may be to swallow, this extends to your ex and his GF as well.
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@samanthasmokes How can I be okay with his girlfriend doing this to me and leaving the card within my sons reach?
samanthasmokes · 36-40, F
@Jenni855 I grant you're not OK with it and you're pissed.
So throw some gas on the fire, start a war, show that bitch some righteous payback.
OR ....
you can rise above it.
In either choice you're giving your son an example how adults handle conflict and anger.
So throw some gas on the fire, start a war, show that bitch some righteous payback.
OR ....
you can rise above it.
In either choice you're giving your son an example how adults handle conflict and anger.
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
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SW-User
How did it make your son feel?
SW-User
@Jenni855 just talk about with your son.... don’t bother with the drama from your ex’s girlfriend
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
I don't get it.
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@Butterflykisses24 His girlfriend wrote the card saying that he was like a mum and dad to our son as I am such a shit parent
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
@Jenni855 oh.maybe she got the card at a gas station.relax.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
I don't get it
ianR0ckwell · M
It hurts because thete is truth...but the good news is you can change...stop being petty...
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@ianR0ckwell No. It hurts because it was out of place of his new woman to do that.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
Who did you cheat on your hubby with ?
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I'm confused