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Should I stay?

Should I still give genuine advice and care to the person whose been hurt by his ex? Knowing that I’m already falling for him?
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indyjoe · 56-60, M
Careful...ever heard of patients falling in love with their doctors or Therapists? Mental/emotional and/or physical care is an intensely intimate and personal thing between the giver and the recipient. Intense feelings can and do develop and they are often mistaken for "love". There isn't a lot of difference in what you say you have been doing...just a word to the wise.
ImPurple · 31-35, F
The thing is eventhough I know that it’s complicated and that I should keep my distance I cant take it when I know he’s hurting. It seems like I feel like I have to protect him and I should be beside him. 😞@indyjoe]
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@ImPurple It's okay to be there for your friend...I'm just saying to be aware of your own feelings toward him because you may end up finding yourself hurt.
ImPurple · 31-35, F
That if we are together we tend to be clingy. Seems like we became the “escape” for each other.@indyjoe