Should I stay?

Should I still give genuine advice and care to the person whose been hurt by his ex? Knowing that I’m already falling for him?

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indyjoe · 56-60, M

Careful...ever heard of patients falling in love with their doctors or Therapists? Mental/emotional and/or physical care is an intensely intimate and personal thing between the giver and the recipient. Intense feelings can and do develop and they are often mistaken for "love". There isn't a lot of difference in what you say you have been doing...just a word to the wise.

ImPurple · 31-35, F

The thing is eventhough I know that it’s complicated and that I should keep my distance I cant take it when I know he’s hurting. It seems like I feel like I have to protect him and I should be beside him. 😞@indyjoe]

indyjoe · 56-60, M

@ImPurple It's okay to be there for your friend...I'm just saying to be aware of your own feelings toward him because you may end up finding yourself hurt.

ImPurple · 31-35, F

That if we are together we tend to be clingy. Seems like we became the “escape” for each other.@indyjoe

muffinman · 61-69, M

just remember … you only hear his side of the story … 'nuff said.

yeronlyman · 51-55, M

Like an episode of the Bold and the Beautiful... 🤔

JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M

Yeh tell him you'd treat him better!

SW-User

Keep back 200ft

SW-User

Get a hobby

Reflection2 · M

Keep the distance. Don't be just a source of distraction for him. Hope you get what I mean.

ImPurple · 31-35, F

Maybe he’s just lonely right? @Reflection2

Reflection2 · M

@ImPurple Lonely? Or may be addicted to have an attention of gender he feels attracted too. Don't he have male friends? If no? He has problems. My opinion.

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