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Olivine · 31-35
People might change a little, but they have to want to change and be open to it. If they're the type of person that thinks they're always right and responds to any criticism by getting defensive and steamrolling the other person... yeah, nope. Never gonna change.
Frozenblaze · 100+, F
@Olivine What do you think of remorseful bad guys who repent and are willing to change? Do you think they can keep up their promises?
Olivine · 31-35
@Frozenblaze If they are truly remorseful and genuinely want to change, perhaps. I've seen it happen.
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
Of course. Through compassion, patience, and understanding. :)
monte3 · 70-79, M
Probably not. ☹️
Frozenblaze · 100+, F
@monte3 Even when you're trying to build him positively for a lifetime companionship?
monte3 · 70-79, M
I am not sure how old you and this guy are. But let me tell you the number of women that have set out to improve their guy is huge and the number that succeed are small.
After 30 we pretty much are what we are.@Frozenblaze
After 30 we pretty much are what we are.@Frozenblaze
Frozenblaze · 100+, F
@monte3 Thanks for the feed back. Truly appreciated
SW-User
Depends on the person really
midnightsun · 26-30, M
No
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Don't plan on changing a grown man.
Frozenblaze · 100+, F
@ViciDraco Why?
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@Frozenblaze change can only really come from within. You can facilitate but you cannot mold. Most grown men are set on their path.