Is there a reason why I can’t tell her that I’m in Love with her when she’s already taken?

There have been some occasional times to where want to but the only thing that sucks about it is that it’s a Work Place. It’s the only thing that’s making me keeping my distance from the situation I’m in and yes I do know, it’s quite dangerous to do such a thing.

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Northwest · M

What's the point? Is she in love with you? If not, then you would only be getting yourself stuck.

DutchGravitas · 41-45, M

Most of the time, she’s always looking at me and sending me signals. So honestly, I have no clue. It’s almost a continuous constant.

Northwest · M

@DutchGravitas I don't know what you mean by taken. As in married? Engaged? In a relationship? What do you think will happen?

indyjoe · 56-60, M

@DutchGravitas Have you ever considered that she is always looking at you because she knows/senses you are looking at her? Or that the "signals" she is always sending you is just her being friendly and your own wishful thinking is misreading them and making them out to be something they are not?

DutchGravitas · 41-45, M

That’s not really the case though. She looks at me when I’m not looking at her at all. I don’t even pay attention (most of the time) anyways. She has a Boyfriend, so I’m not going to do anything towards her, even though I want to. I can’t because I know better than that. Besides, I’ve even decided to completely give up because of my Ex decided to betray her own trust and cheat on me.

Northwest · M

@DutchGravitas How's your ex cheating on you, related to how another woman may feel about you?

bijouxbroussard · F

@Northwest This woman already has a boyfriend. Since he knows how it feels to be cheated on, I’m guessing he gets that possibly helping another woman cheat isn’t very honorable.