How do I move back?

So, my best friend at the time said she really likes me and broke up with her bf to show she does. We went on a movie date. After I started to see a pretty good future. The next day she ghosts me and gets back together with her boyfriend. What sucks is that I work with her, how do we go back to friends? I don’t know how to back track everything I was looking forward to.

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Gusman · 61-69, M

She is playing with your emotions. Simply treat her as a work colleague.
What happens when she breaks up again with her current boyfriend?
No one deserves to be toyed with.

AmbivalentFriability · 26-30

@Gusman I second this.

Lonelyheart · 26-30, M

Idk. I was just really excited someone was interested in me. I’ve known her for half a year now as far as I know she isn’t the type to play with emotions. She felt really bad about it and I told her it was alright and the right thing to do to give him a second chance.

Gusman · 61-69, M

@Lonelyheart There is no more to do then. Will you take her back if the same thing happens?
That is the question to ask yourself.
Should not be difficult to remain friends at work if all is amicable

AmbivalentFriability · 26-30

I'm not sure I would even want to be friends with her after that. She's playing with both you and her bf.
Might be best just to move on.

SW-User

Maybe you need to talk about it. But I'm no expert.

Lonelyheart · 26-30, M

@SW-User we talked about why she went back with him. She felt she left things off without giving him a chance to make things better.

Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M

🤔...That why it's tough to have a best friend that's a girl.

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