Is it weird that I'm fine with my girlfriend not taking my last name when we marry?

In another dimension, where i'm straight and down with marriage, i'm sure i wouldn't want to take my husbands name at all lol. Why do i have to take [i]your[/i] lastname. How about you take mine 😠

not weird. sharing a name is not what makes marriages last.

if ya both like it why not?

No. When my wife and I got married she did not change her name. There were some specific legal reasons why not. We just set it up with the bank so that they would accept either name.

It's different, and some people might ask you about it, but it's harmless. You do you 😊

With that reasoning I'm betting you have a very high maintenance gf

You can take hers or each keep your own.

Do what makes you both happy

What is it?

Wanna do a three way sometime?

I want to keep my last name if I ever do get married.

That's cute. Nope not weird

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Your gf is in charge, would you change your name to hers?

I’m sure your last name is beautiful too.

Not at all. That’s not uncommon nowadays. And it’s completely between the two of you.