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How would you feel if you got divorced, the ex gets the house which you are still paying for and the ex's new partner moves in?

NylonMag · 36-40, F
I'd never do that to someone. Even if they cheated, I'd be a grown up and not a freeloading cunt
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NylonMag · 36-40, F
@Overwatch6 are you on medications? You seem like a very good person but a bit unstable lol
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iMystery · M
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Northwest · M
If this is the US, then most likely, marital assets are going to be divided 50-50. If she got the house, then why are you still paying for it?
iMystery · M
@Northwest We have the same system in South Africa... in principal... but I know of a number of people who are in this situation despite 50/50 split being the legal norm.
File for bankruptcy
iMystery · M
@Somewhereovertherainbow That is once option I guess
SW-User
Stop paying
iMystery · M
@SW-User Lol what if its court ordered?
Gusman · 61-69, M
Surely if the Ex gets the house then she would take over the payments?
iMystery · M
@Gusman That does not happen all the time, especially if they founds some kind of legal loop hole...

This is EXACTLY what happened to a friend of mine.
Gusman · 61-69, M
@iMystery I can understand that because the laws are bullshit. Made by bullshit people.
iMystery · M
@Gusman True...
PoizonApple · 41-45, F
I don't know unless I'm in the situation
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
Let them take over paying.
iMystery · M
@Butterflykisses24 That can be easier said that done 😅
Id feel like burning the place down 😂
iMystery · M
@lulaluboo I am with you on that! 👍
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
I'm not sure that I'd survive a devorce.
UnlikeableAndy · 36-40, M
Go to court again...
iMystery · M
@UnlikeableAndy Quite a logical option.
helenS · 36-40, F
Her new partner may be unemployed, so they will need money. Consider working more hours, to support them. Don't be greedy. 😁
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iMystery · M
@helenS Lol sorry that previous comment was meant as a response to someone else 😅
iMystery · M
@helenS And yeah I know you're kidding 😁
SW-User
C'est la vie🤷‍♂️
iMystery · M
@SW-User Until you're in that boat 🤣
Regulare05 · 22-25, F
If possible, stop paying for it and let him deal with it! If he can afford to drop a good woman, he can afford to pay for the house to bring in a home wrecker
iMystery · M
@Regulare05 Sometimes that's easier said than done.
Feel stupid for still paying for it

Assets should be divided at the time of divorce
@iMystery it is wrong though of the ex to do this

Also if kids are involved
iMystery · M
@InOtterWords Ex's do many things considered to be wrong.

In my one friend's case, she got the house and he is paying for it... yes she had kids but they were not his... and the kids' FATHER moved in with her!
@iMystery he got taken for a ride
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Tough break. I am typing this from the house I threw my ex out of, but I know not everyone is that lucky.
iMystery · M
@uncalled4 Yeah you're lucky

 
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