Is it morally incorrect to hook up with 2 people at the same time having told one of them that they are exclusively the only one they're hooking up w?

@Vivaci what if after hooking up with the second girl, he didn't hook up with the first girl again and told her he had hooked up? (The first girl was the one he'd told was exclusive)

@basicgirl12 Well, then he's a cheater. The first girl should be happy she found out about his waywardness so soon. Say goodbye to that asshole who cannot keep his word, and his dick in his pants!

Even if they'd established at the beginning that this is only a friends with benefits relationship?

@basicgirl12 well, if it's FWB then there could be no exclusivity clause with the first girl.

I think a man or woman being exclusive means they won't sleep around with anyone else.

If that man found chemistry with some other girl, and things happened, he should tell the first one about it, and also decide where he wants to be. It's tricky to say the least!

Yeah it is tricky for sure.

It was a FWB relationship, but there was chemistry between the two and there was an exclusivity clause‌, which was broken‌, by the guy, who was just horny and wanted to hook up with anyone who was available at that moment

It's tricky I suppose to say whether it was ethical or not

@basicgirl12 Yeah, but keep in mind that some man sliping just because he's horny is no excuse. Get him tested before you sleep with him. I bet this is not the first time he's slipped.

I say this cause a couple reach a certain level of intimacy before they call themselves exclusive.....and there is sincerity and commitment in that word.

Whereas a man breaking that promise in spite of knowing his limits clearly feels he's entitled to pleasures.

So he needs to get his act together if he's looking for a committed relationship with anyone. Or else live as a single carefree man.

Thank you ♥️♥️ this gave me a lot more clarity on this issue, really. J fully agree yeah

I just feel like in general, FWB or not‌, if you've promised something you should stick by it and not break it

@basicgirl12 Exactly! There was this movie where the boyfriend meets his old flame, this a hot blonde, and they have dinner and catch up on old times, later she takes him to her hotel room. He undresses, and is about to sleep with her, when he stops, and realizes that it's not worth it. He says sorry to the now pissed off ex....and wears his clothes and runs back home to his girlfriend....who's fast asleep in bed....kisses her and in her sleep he tells her he wants to marry her.

That's commitment.

@Vivaci that's lovely ♥️♥️♥️

@basicgirl12 Indeed! That's what every sincere girl deserves! 💞