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Relationship of 6 years

So recently, I’ve moved in with my ex-boyfriend in July. As told, your true colors start to come out. Anyways, we’ve argued and talked but eventually he reached to the point where he no longer wanted to be with me. Cool. I’ve been growing as a person and working on myself. And we’ve spoke and he stated that eventually he would be with me, but that we both needed to work on ourselves. He told me today, that he is NOT attracted to me. What could that mean? Attracted to me how? I feel so hurt. Like I did something wrong.
Eunrodae
26-30, F
13 replies 88 views Oct 1, 2018
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ScarletWitch · 31-35, F
What an asshole. Move out hun. Ur just hurting yourself by staying
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Cassandra1 · 36-40, T
Fuck that dude. You don't need to wait on a guy to be with u. Fuck that! Have him wait on u. What a piece of shit
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SW-User
It's time for you to move on from how it sounds.
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MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
It means find another boyfriend
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Newandimproved · 61-69, M
nah you didn't do anything wrong. it's just that the odds are that people that move into together will break up shortly after that.

you can do better

you will do better

it hurts for a while, but it gets better with time
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deadgerbil · 26-30
Although it's normal to feel hurt, recognize that he isn't the one for you. Staying with him will only drain you of your energy, lower your happiness, and weaken your constitution.
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Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
Why would you want to be with someone that hurts you and tells you,you arent attractive.Call a friend or family.Get out of there.You are too young to settle for that kinda stuff.
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4meAndyou · F
Why don't you ditch this guy? You did once. You can do it again. Why on earth would you want a relationship with some nasty prick who tells you to your face that he doesn't want you sexually?
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
How long is 'eventually'? Time to move on I think.
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Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I think it means he probably still loves you but not in a way that you want or need ... in a platonic way and he wants to explore other options. You guys are SO young for a 6 year relationship. He maybe outgrew you in that time.

And of COURSE you're hurt. Who wouldn't be? I'm so sorry you are.
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bigryand · 31-35, M
Sometimes it takes a major step in a relationship to reveal true colors. You didn't do anything wrong. It's best to just move along, it's his loss. Sounds like he's unsure of what he wants. I don't recommend wanting on him to change his mind, but it's your call.
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JimboUk · 31-35, M
From your own account, it wasn't going well so what is the problem? #confused
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ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Don't take that seriously, he's lashing out over something. Or trying to convince himself. Not sure why, but maybe he's just an asshat?
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