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is it common for women to fake orgasm's? just a myth?

TexChik · F
If you have to ask , you’ll never know
NorthernRoses · 22-25, F
Ridiculously common.
Viper · M
@NorthernRoses that's so unfortunate
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
I don't know, I guess it depends on the guys ego. I have never faked one.
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ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
Sadly, yes....it is a common practice
Oleander · 31-35, F
I fake it for a friend. If it is somebody i don't know or don't really want to know, i will tell them the truth.
It always makes me laugh when their self-esteem slips from them, realizing that they haven't even made a step of progress to making me orgasm.
Miram · 31-35, F
It is common in western countries. Where I grew up most men don't care about their partners' sexual needs. It is what happens when you are religiously brainwashed to believe you are superior and in charge.
Miram · 31-35, F
@wakanda4eva Not with the same frequency. If I was having this conversation in an Egyptian website for instance, I would be called a whore. Whereas here it is fine to use whatever words I please.

And marty there would have the majority agreeing with him.

I sometimes find it pitiful sometimes that despite whatever scientific and intellectual advancements we make as a collective, there still be elements of narcissism, need for control and extreme selfishness within our communities. But maybe without that, one would never appreciate the opposite.
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@Miram true lol, most of the time I feel like the tables are flipped here cos sometimes I see man get a lot more hate for not pleasing a women than a women not pleasing a man, then I see some other posts about spanking and how according to a certain religious/culture standard u have to dress a certain way, and act "feminine" and all the guys go yes! What happened to the good ol days? And I'm like...nvm lol so I would say it's a balance here, but ur probably right about about how for instance egyptian websites, the sexism or narcisism would be a lot more one sided.
Miram · 31-35, F
@wakanda4eva I think it is really stupid to live in a western country and be that ignorant..There is no excuse anymore. But I remember my ex grew up in christian, perhaps Mormon, community, and his silly religious family thought it is good idea to bring my lack of sexual experience and praise it. I know the shallow still hang around, everywhere.
bobby1975 · F
If you don't know the answer to this question, you're living in pleasant bliss.
Um...you seriously don't know?
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MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@MichaelJT This guy gets it
Degbeme · 70-79, M
It`s not a myth. 🙄
Salix75 · 46-50, F
For some women, yes... and the reasons why can be quite interesting

Not quite the same thing (this deals with making sounds during sex, not specifically at the time of orgasm):

https://similarworlds.com/8839489-I-Am-Fascinated-By-Human-Behavior/599329-Ive-always-wondered-why-there-were-so-many-near-hy
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@Salix75 U EvERZ faKES wiTH MEz?
Salix75 · 46-50, F
@DonaldTrumpet it's all false news and false orgasms with you DT :D
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@Salix75 I HAZ wiMNEZ OrganISmING WheZN theYZ waLKZ iN THE rOOMZ. LiKES a ClitoRUS MagNETZ
JaneDoeEyes · 36-40, F
Considering the average male will ejaculate in 5 min,I would say yes. There are plenty of fake O's to go around.
gol979 · 41-45, M
No time for faking when you're with me. Over in a a flash 😉
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@gol979 🤣
Ive heard of it but i don't see the point. Seems dumb imo
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
More common than most of us would be willing to admit.
BlueRain · F
We do what we have to do lol
marsbar · F
It depends on the woman.
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@Greenbare 😂
I guess that it depends on the situation... though I have never actually done so myself, I have to admit to being dangerously close to doing so on one occasion to be rid of an inconsiderate partner.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Well my gf didn't fake it, since I never cared. 🤷 It's a load of work making a woman orgasm, and when I'm trying to relax I'm not gonna rub her clit for 20 minutes. 😒 She gets what I get, in and out.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
@Pinkstarburst Well, I’m sure he can take care of that last bit by himself, since he obviously doesn’t understand or care about a woman, or her needs.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@wakanda4eva wanna go and grab a burger?
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I have heard it was,but I have never faked it..It just doesn't happen for me,unless I do it myself...My Husband has come to understand this over the last 38 years,so I have no reason to fake it..
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
I'd reckon it's harder to tell for weman cos guys ya just whack and puff and ya done
If you have to ask you'll never know.
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Yes, very common among women.
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Only to survive
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HerKing · 61-69, M
Yes and no.
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@CopperCicada Sadly, this attitude can be quite common among the younger age groups, though. I guess that the main thing to be concerned about is that the young man enjoys himself.
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@CopperCicada I was echoing your comment👍️

 
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