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is it common for women to fake orgasm's? just a myth?

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Miram · 31-35, F
It is common in western countries. Where I grew up most men don't care about their partners' sexual needs. It is what happens when you are religiously brainwashed to believe you are superior and in charge.
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@Miram I don't think it's specified to only western countries, I think almost all countries are pretty much the same on guys not caring about their partners sexual needs, or maybe in Certain parts of asia probably even worse cos they are by culture and also religion lower than man. Like maybe certain parts of arab /India etc;
Miram · 31-35, F
@wakanda4eva I think you misunderstood my comment. I am not referring to western countries when talking about my past and yes, it is [b]way[/b] more extreme else where. You don't have to fake it. Some don't even know there is such thing as female orgasm.
Miram · 31-35, F
@wakanda4eva And no, it is not the same in all countries.
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@Miram I don't understand how I misunderstood it because u said it's common in western countries so I was thinking other countries also have it too, and ur not referring to talking about ur past, unless u mean ur only refering to talking about ur past that I can understand where ur coming from
Miram · 31-35, F
@wakanda4eva You don't have to fake an orgasm if the guy doesn't care for yours. You'd have to fake it if you know he has that expectation. He expects you to orgasm.

In other countries there is no such expectation. No one cares if you do or don't literally.
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@Miram and I agree on how some completely treat women like slave objects and don't even understand they can orgasm which is wild lol and fucked up
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@Miram ahhh yeah, but that would also apply to western countries too, cos like you've said all depends on religion and culture and whatnot
Miram · 31-35, F
@wakanda4eva Not with the same frequency. If I was having this conversation in an Egyptian website for instance, I would be called a whore. Whereas here it is fine to use whatever words I please.

And marty there would have the majority agreeing with him.

I sometimes find it pitiful sometimes that despite whatever scientific and intellectual advancements we make as a collective, there still be elements of narcissism, need for control and extreme selfishness within our communities. But maybe without that, one would never appreciate the opposite.
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@Miram true lol, most of the time I feel like the tables are flipped here cos sometimes I see man get a lot more hate for not pleasing a women than a women not pleasing a man, then I see some other posts about spanking and how according to a certain religious/culture standard u have to dress a certain way, and act "feminine" and all the guys go yes! What happened to the good ol days? And I'm like...nvm lol so I would say it's a balance here, but ur probably right about about how for instance egyptian websites, the sexism or narcisism would be a lot more one sided.
Miram · 31-35, F
@wakanda4eva I think it is really stupid to live in a western country and be that ignorant..There is no excuse anymore. But I remember my ex grew up in christian, perhaps Mormon, community, and his silly religious family thought it is good idea to bring my lack of sexual experience and praise it. I know the shallow still hang around, everywhere.