Would you let your partner look at your phone/texts?

@SW-User I agree...I would never go through and snoop into my wife's personal things, nor would she mine. Like I said in my reply, we share pretty much everything anyway and have no reason to doubt or mistrust one another. I know that she will tell me or show me something if she feels/thinks I need to know, and if she doesn't then I know she has a good reason for it (and it's nothing shady) which practically doesn't happen so I don't ask let alone spy or snoop...and she pays me the same respect.

@indyjoe I give my partner that same respect too although she doesn’t give me that same respect.

@SW-User Unfortunately a lot of times what you give to and do for someone else isn't always reciprocated, I've been there many times before myself. I've not only got a good but also a fair partner now though and I couldn't be more thankful for that.