What to do if your boyfriend cheats on you?

I just want some help so that I can take further action. My boyfriend has been cheating with his secretary. I caught them in the office and he fired her immediately. But I’d don’t think I can even tolerate to look at him and I’d like to leave him ASAP. He doesn’t want me to leave him and says it was just one time which I don’t believe. He wants to go to therapy and give our relationship another chance and I don’t.

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Maiya · F

UPDATE:

First of all a big Thank You for showing me such support. My close friends and colleagues haven’t been nearly as supportive as you guys.

I have kicked my boyfriend out of my house. He was very shocked to see me stand up for myself as I’m not a very aggressive or confrontational person in general. I had thrown all his stuff out on the street before he got home. It was pretty funny to see his reaction to my actions. He has been trying to contact me and I have blocked him from all my social media and phone. His words of apology and whatever that he’s planning to do have no effect on me anymore. I’ve gotten rid of him for good.

Another thing. After this whole incident I thought of asking around and found out that he had affairs with not only his secretary but also my sorry excuse of a best friend and my cousin. It felt bad but I have kicked them out of my life too, I didn’t expect this from them, as three of us have been very close since we were kids. Their betrayal feels far worse than his.

My Ex-Boyfriend(😉🤣😆😂) started complaining about how I’m being very unreasonable as I’ve destoryed his plans of an amazing proposal. Phew! Thank heavens that I dodged that bullet.

I’m just really glad that I got rid of all the toxicity from my life. I feel so much better now and I breathe so much better now.🙏🏻