What to do if your boyfriend cheats on you?

On top of getting rid of him please do yourself a favor and get tested for STDs. Who knows how many he has played around with or what those girls sexual history is.

UPDATE:

First of all a big Thank You for showing me such support. My close friends and colleagues haven’t been nearly as supportive as you guys.

I have kicked my boyfriend out of my house. He was very shocked to see me stand up for myself as I’m not a very aggressive or confrontational person in general. I had thrown all his stuff out on the street before he got home. It was pretty funny to see his reaction to my actions. He has been trying to contact me and I have blocked him from all my social media and phone. His words of apology and whatever that he’s planning to do have no effect on me anymore. I’ve gotten rid of him for good.

Another thing. After this whole incident I thought of asking around and found out that he had affairs with not only his secretary but also my sorry excuse of a best friend and my cousin. It felt bad but I have kicked them out of my life too, I didn’t expect this from them, as three of us have been very close since we were kids. Their betrayal feels far worse than his.

My Ex-Boyfriend(😉🤣😆😂) started complaining about how I’m being very unreasonable as I’ve destoryed his plans of an amazing proposal. Phew! Thank heavens that I dodged that bullet.

I’m just really glad that I got rid of all the toxicity from my life. I feel so much better now and I breathe so much better now.🙏🏻

Get rid of him. It wasn't the first time. Good luck.

it's just one time
Lol dude, sure

He's probably done this several times with several women. The trust is gone tbh. I'm sorry this has happened to you and I can't imagine your pain and frustration. I'm not gonna tell you what to do but I think it's best to move on. Life's too short.

Thank you guys. I’m going to kick him out of my house right now. Throw all his stuff out(and not in a box). I don’t need the negativity he’ll bring into my life. It hurts now but it’ll hurt more if I let him stay.

If you don’t want to be with him anymore, then therapy isn’t going to help anyway. Just end it for real.

@TjNewton he cheated, he will do it again. My ex did this, I was stupid and believed he'd never do it again.... He did it again. Its your decision. You do what you need to do.

I'd leave in 2 seconds, he's now a slimeball cause he cheated on you and that mistrust will always be between you two

As I mentioned in the comments, dump him as soon as you can.

Can you imagine that my best friend is on his side. She just texted me and wants me to talk it out. She says and I quote “ He’s too good looking to not have affairs. You should just talk and let it go. Don’t be so dramatic”
Looks like I’m gonna have to kick her out of my life too. Wow,

Tell him I don’t want to be with a cheater so I’m braking up with u

Relationships that don't have trust fail.

Your smart. I would leave him

Just ask him to leave right now
Without any conversation no words
If people can cheat one time they can do it again it's not a big deal for them.
It just a cheat so just ask him to leave without saying any word

@SW-User Can you cheat on me even if you're married and you aren't my boyfriend?

Leave.

Nope , it’s obvious you will never trust him again ... get rid of him and give yourself time to get over the heart ache . So sorry that happened .

It could get worse if his secretary takes legal action for unfair dismissal and goes to the media.

If you do decide to forgive him, that doesn't mean you ever have to let him back into your life again. Trust and forgiveness are very different things.

Just do what you want to do. Looks like you don't believe in him or the hurt was too bad so better to end everything.

Women never leave a cheater. I’m not wasting time on you.

You don't need his permission or agreement to break up with him.

Dump him

Then don't. If you don't think you'll be able to regain the trust (and that's what it would take) , don't let him waste any more of your time.

Haha.

He sounds creepy.