I am part of this online group that is pretty cool and accepting but they never wanna respond to me.

I get the feeling that they find me obnoxious and just dont wanna tell me or that they dont actually want me in their group but they dont wanna kick me out either its sorta saddening and i was wondering if any of you had any idea on how to gracefully approach the situation cause if not im just gonna do what i normally do which is try to figure out whats up and then solidify in their minds by being self destructive and defensive that they should kick me from their group or just tell me that they dont know why i am a part of it.

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SW-User

Oh! people young look to identify in differing ways, some will be conscious of the affects but often they are not! This is the time to say, be yourself and those who care to you will be there.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

What kind of online group? Support? Dating site? What about just asking the question... to them?

GrippedbyMelancholy · 31-35, M

@MarkPaul Its through a gaming app called Discord and its just that i will ask if people wanna play games or watch movies/Tv shows with me but i dont even get dignified with a response

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@GrippedbyMelancholy Sounds like you are not really part of their clique. You need to confront them, conform to them, or move on.

Spoiledbrat · F

Maybe they feel awkward. Have you tried breaking the ice first?

GrippedbyMelancholy · 31-35, M

@Spoiledbrat I have invited multiple members of the server to join me in doing stuff i guess the real indication to me was the last game i played with them was a board game called red dragon inn and we didnt finish the game so they said we would come back to it and when they went to play it again i tried to ask to join them and they just dont answer and act like im not talking to them

SW-User

If I were you I'd just drop out of such a political place.

Zeushardhands · 36-40, M

what group?

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