What should I do?

My boyfriend wants me to start coding and take over his old job. I dont know anytging about coding. He said im just "making excuses to not put in effort or take risks". I have a decent job that I like... the other one just pays better. Hes making me feel like shit for not wanting to take the other job.

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EnchantedAzy · 26-30, F

I have told him. But he just replies that im making up excuses

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SW-User

@EnchantedAzy tell him that it's not an excuse, you love your job and you don't even like saying 'coding' and you're not going to leave your job

EnchantedAzy · 26-30, F

I feel like the real reason hes doing this is because he makes like 3 times as much as me. So its like im not good enough :/

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@EnchantedAzy life is not about making money while feeling miserable, enjoy doing something you like and motivates you. like i said, coding might even take a year till you start to get a grip on it

Serenitree · F

@EnchantedAzy Then he's not good enough for you.