What should I do?

Studies have shown that making more money does not make people any happier. Job satisfaction is far more important.

One person's "excuse" is another person's reason. This is simply semantics. He is trying to put you on the defensive for not doing what he wants you to do.

When you say he says your reasons are "just an excuse," that implies you are arguing about it. There should be NO argument about you doing what you like to do instead of learning a job skill you find difficult and unappealing. This is simply your decision; he should not even be arguing with you about it, let alone calling your personal choices "an excuse."

Try this: Tell him you've been thinking about this and have decided to stay with your present job and career. Then sit calmly as he rants and mentally give him a time limit (like 2-3 minutes) as you listen with no response or argument. Then say, "I can see how strongly you feel about this. Nevertheless, that is my decision." And do not have any argument about it. You can say, "This subject is closed for further discussion." Then change the subject to something pleasant.

coding is hard and not for everyone plus you like your job so it's better to let him know then to resent him in future

Why the hell would he think what he does would suit anybody else ?
Especially his partner who has their own life, level of understanding, field of interest, career etc ?

That's either stupid thinking or a form of narcissistic bullying.
Don't have a bar of it !

Just tell him to eff off.

You all have been so supportive! Thank you ❤

give a try may be you will like it.can make more money in coding.if not tell him your are good at it and can do best in the job you like..

I have told him. But he just replies that im making up excuses

What is coding?

And don't let anyone pressure you into giving up a job where you're happy. Being happy in your work is the ideal. So many go where the money is and they make money, but they're too miserable to enjoy it.

Maybe try it first!!! Then decide..

Thanks for Best Answer!😎

Not do it.

He sounds controlling. That’s not good.