Ex bf still continues his smear campaign after a year. I can help feeling bad. What should I do?

Seriously, I think there’s only one way to deal with this and stay sane.

First place, anybody who puffs you off because of a rumor from an ex wouldn’t have been of much value anyway. Small loss.

Nobody with any sense buys what an ex says about character.

In a case like the girls in the restaurant, you can either ignore them (channel Grace Kelly for the regal dignity) or walk right up and ask if there was something they wanted to know. (Don’t do this if they’re wearing gang colors or have knives stuck in the top of their hooker boots.)

In the grand scheme of things, the ex and his harem of fright queens is of no significance to you. Once they get that idea...they're not getting to you, it’ll get boring and they’ll stop.

Try to comfort yourself with how much worse it might have been. You might have ended up with him.

idk what the circumstances of your break up was or how long you dated. generally stuff like this wouldn’t faze me personally. there have been times i was batshit crazy. i own it. if they talk about me, it’s because they don’t have an understanding of the situation or a context as to why i was batshit crazy, (trust me it was justified) so with that in mind, i find it hard to give their opinions any merit.

you can’t really do anything legally btw. lol. i had a female stalker for years and the shit she got away with was nothing compared to this. she basically said everything should could and it’s not against the law because it’s a personal matter. Harassment doesn’t work either till they threaten or hurt you. i’ve looked into all this ....

I don't understand dickfucks like that. Sore losers. Weak personalities.

Next time someone points or whispers she's the crazy one or something, be brave and confront them. No need to be hostile, just ask them what exactly have they heard that makes them call you crazy.(you probably will get a lot of bull, just be strong.) Hopefully they will reconsider their opinions and words if they have any ounce of decency in them

If you can prove he's doing things to cause these things then you can file criminal and civil change against him. But it sounds like this might all be in your head. You may just need to not think about it for a while. Not saying that will be easy.

if it's for reals and slander/libel.

talk with a lawyer.

consultation should be free.

and if you got a case: harassment AT LEAST! they'll tell you and take installment payments.

What he’s doing is called relational aggression. I’ve had this done to me before. I can help you through it, but I think I could help you better if we talk over PM. Do you mind?

He still butthurt. I bet if you asked to see him, he'd say yes, so stand him up lol

If he’s smearing your name it’s because he’s not over you yet.

Spread a mean rumor about him like he had an std

Crazy ass ex. You. Are the Winner! 🤗💕

Who broke up with who?