Is it rude what I did ?

It started raining outside...afterwards I sat with a lady and she told me that she was standing outside. I replayed: did you have an umbrella or you were showered by the rain ?

She got offended. I never intended to offend her was just trying to be funny.

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SW-User

Umm, a stranger (woman) may not want to be asked if they are showered. This may be where SW is leading you astray in boundaries.

Puzzleofflesh · 31-35, M

@SW-User showered is a joke that she was covered in water because of the rain.

SW-User

@Puzzleofflesh And maybe it crossed a boundary clueless one

SW-User

@Puzzleofflesh waiting for a reply more.... It's easy for me to see why she got uncomfortable given your subtext (women read this)

hami1091 · 41-45, F

I wouldn't have cared to be honest, and yes this evening when I was out and the rain came I showered in it as quickly as possible abandoning groceries in automobile with the plastic store bag on my head. Some women obviously might be offended by it, but where I'm from it's a common joke.

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