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How to get over someone you love but doesn't love you back?

AbbySvenz · F
Wouldn't want the neighbors complaining. Unless you had enough bullets...?
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
@AbbySvenz Hmmmm, that's not a bad idea... get rid of the noisy neighbors too. 😂
AbbySvenz · F
🙉
Suck it up, buttercup.
@ProdigalSummer best answer nomination
Somerset · 26-30, M
It's normal that you sometimes see a person you wanna forget at times. Every forgotten person starts with a strong decision to actually forget them because of whatever reason. Maybe you know it hurts you when you keep seeing them. Therefor you have to tell yourself that you finally want to move on. It's not easy of course. But when you're able to control the feeling of painful surprise when you suddenly see them, you're on the right way. The best way for me was to fill my head with other stuff, maybe talk you friends, spend alot of time with them, go see some movies, read book after book, learn cooking, start working out, go on a vacation, learn an instrument, go to concerts. But whats most important: listen to all the songs which remind you of him until you are familiar with the feeling, therefor it becomes routine and goes away. That doesnt include only songs but all the thigns that remind you of the person. Eat, sleep and repeat, baby. This wont last.
Somerset · 26-30, M
He is probably a nice guy. He would have no reason to lead you on, I reckon.
Softylips · 26-30, F
Well that just leaves simply uninterested ;(
Somerset · 26-30, M
Uninterested doesnt mean anyhting bad. Maybe he is just interested in friendship.
SW-User
Avoidance and distance
Softylips · 26-30, F
@SW-User I always see him around college :(
SW-User
@Softylips that makes it harder then. 😒
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
Not one...but many.@hunkalove
AlmostAnAngel · 100+, F
Make friends, do things that interest you. Remember it wasn't you it was them that lost out on someone wonderful.
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
By realising he or she treats you like crap.
Softylips · 26-30, F
@Longpatrol the thing is, he doesn't treat me like crap. But he just doesn't return my feelings. He is a really nice guy ;(
celine211 · 22-25, F
@Softylips oh shit that's worse..now we can't even hate that fucker
Softylips · 26-30, F
@celine211 Exactly! Now do you feel my dilemma ? 😭 I wish he was a huge douchebag but he's not. Just a little boring sometimes but that's not really his now , is it?
SW-User
Keep yourself really busy it will distract you from dwelling on what you can't have
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Break contact (if possible), distract yourself and let time heal your wounds.
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
Give it time, enjoy other friends, find something new and exciting/interesting (like a new hobby). Basically take up the time your mind dwells on it with other fun things. Love, especially unrequited love, hurts. It's part of life, and I know that doesn't help one bit while you are hurting, but it will pass.
You need time. Focus on yourself--your family, friends, school work... find a reason to leave the house and do something other than dwell on this person.
I had the same problem. I don't think of him anymore.
kayoshin · 41-45, M
Realizing and reminding yourself that someone not loving you is a disqualifying flaw for a partner.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
You find someone who does and don’t waste your time dwelling on what it isn’t or wasn’t.
Wish it came in a bottle. It is just gonna take time.
Classy · 22-25, F
Absolutely that right there, they don’t love you.
LyricalOne · F
Time and distraction.
stained · 16-17, M
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Just stop. When you can't do that, it's just a fake it 'til you make situation.
SW-User
Time mainly and adjustment

 
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