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How to get over someone you love but doesn't love you back?

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Somerset · 26-30, M
It's normal that you sometimes see a person you wanna forget at times. Every forgotten person starts with a strong decision to actually forget them because of whatever reason. Maybe you know it hurts you when you keep seeing them. Therefor you have to tell yourself that you finally want to move on. It's not easy of course. But when you're able to control the feeling of painful surprise when you suddenly see them, you're on the right way. The best way for me was to fill my head with other stuff, maybe talk you friends, spend alot of time with them, go see some movies, read book after book, learn cooking, start working out, go on a vacation, learn an instrument, go to concerts. But whats most important: listen to all the songs which remind you of him until you are familiar with the feeling, therefor it becomes routine and goes away. That doesnt include only songs but all the thigns that remind you of the person. Eat, sleep and repeat, baby. This wont last.
Softylips · 26-30, F
@Somerset thanks babe,I've been waiting on this guy for a year. Been dropping hints for a year and I never got anything back :(
Somerset · 26-30, M
Maybe you should distant yourself from the thought that he might hasn't noticed your hints, but rather that he is simply not interested?
Softylips · 26-30, F
Yeah I supposed so. I'm so confused. I don't know if he's treating me well just because he's a nice guy or he's leading me on.
Somerset · 26-30, M
He is probably a nice guy. He would have no reason to lead you on, I reckon.
Softylips · 26-30, F
Well that just leaves simply uninterested ;(
Somerset · 26-30, M
Uninterested doesnt mean anyhting bad. Maybe he is just interested in friendship.