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Do you feel suffocated if your partner constantly checks up on you?

frequentlyme · 70-79, M
Jealousy and control are deal breakers... I don't do it and I don't accept it.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@frequentlyme Exactly
FunReader55 · 51-55, M
in the words of negan, you need to "shut that shit down!" im not gonna type out why. just trust me on this one! :)
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@FunReader55 I once knew someone who's girlfriend would call him every 10 minutes when he was out. If he didn't answer she would call all of his friends until someone would pick up to ask what he was doing. If no one answered he'd get messages saying she'd call the police if he didn't answer and she was worried about him etc.
I don't know if they split up since they had kids together but that was just insane
FunReader55 · 51-55, M
kids together?? holy cow! i would have given her the first call. hey, we all make mistakes! lol!! but the second call, you gone!! with kids.. hmmm... maybe go practical, get a number she doesn't know and tell your friends its on them if they answer!! how does she have time for that with kids?? i have 2 and zero time and i'm the lazy dad. not the freaking mom!
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@FunReader55 I have no idea. I assume she wasn't like that before they had kids, if I was a guy I certainly wouldn't be impregnating someone like that 🤣
Winenot · 51-55, F
That would not work for me, insecurity is a turn off. Unless I’m sick then I’d like constant attention, please!
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@Winenot yes constant jealous and accusing behaviour is the best way to put me off someone haha
SW-User
it's not that bad
he just want most of my attention focussed on him
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@SW-User that's too much for me. I don't have the mental energy for it
SW-User
I would not put up with being constantly checked up on... 😡 yes, I would feel suffocated!!
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
He wouldn't be my partner for long.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover Yes I shut it down quickly if a bf turns out like that
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@AliceMortem Controlling types are dangerous. It's for the best to get rid of them ASAP.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
Yes. I need my privacy.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@NankerPhelge same here
indyjoe · 56-60, M
If she did...I would...so yes.
jennypenny · 70-79, F
Yes if he's over-protective or jealous. Concern is another matter
proteus · 56-60, M
No, I just stop it
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@proteus I don't do it
proteus · 56-60, M
@AliceMortem
If you don't set the limits
how do you expect other to respect them
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AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@Mguinm I can imagine it would drive you crazy if you dealt with it for long enough
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