Anybody feel loyalty-bound to their ex?

@Samael And you don’t have to wait for them to ‘cause they might never so you just have to be open to other people and find someone you like even more

No.. Waiting in this situation is a lost cause. Could never be open though; my ex was the one who approached me 'cause I'm too scared to get out there.

@Samael Well, if someone approaches you don’t push them away.. you’re not helping yourself then

You are holding yourself back. Don't think, just do

@lulaluboo If my being as a whole is holding me back I might as well commit suicide; no. I want to know what part of me is holding me back; and that is what I struggle with.

For the moment might as well let time do its thing.

Your being as a whole? [b]no...[/b] your thought process related to your ex and relationships is holding you back.

Sometimes it's better not to know why. Just a waste of time. Valueless.

I'm telling you dude, force yourself to get out on a date or whatever. Then if that goes bad do it again. And again. That's the best way to move on

And that's all I've got to say, good luck

@SW-User I do. But she's out of my life; I just hold onto the shards that cut my hands. Hate that I can't help it.

@Samael Understood.