How physically motivated are women?

I am in a marriage that has gone sideways. I have gained weight and my wife doesn't like it. I suspect however that if she still loved me it would be less important that I have put on weight. That is an assumption of course. I am assuming if ahe still loved me like she did she would see me as she wants to see me.

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iamnikki · 31-35, F

Has she gained? I wouldn't mind, as long as he doesn't look sloppy

Genieinabottle · 51-55, M

@iamnikki she has gained about 40 lbs since our wedding. I have gained about 50 lbs since our wedding- twenty years ago.

Genieinabottle · 51-55, M

@iamnikki I don't think I look sloppy, I am a shade over 6 feet and 260. She is 5'7" and 200 so I think we are similarly overweight but we carry it different and I have never minded her weight, I don't find her sexually appealing all the time anymore but that is about what she refuses to let me do with and to her sexually - not her weight.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Genieinabottle hmm, maybe yall could work out together?