Marriage

You know my parent's know I am engaged to Zackary. Well my dad told me last night they won't pay for my marriage again. They are saving up for the baby. Well first off I never asked them to pay for it at all. But shouldn't they offer to at least to help a little. Me and Zackary we haven't even started to talk about the wedding at all. Last time I got married in went all out. The church and big white dress and flowers. Not really sure what to do now. Zackary told me it is my wedding so it is up to me

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PoetryNEmotion · F

This is your second marriage. Your parents don't have to help financially at all. You are old enough to get married so make your own wedding. It is enough that your parents support your decision emotionally. And the wedding day is really not the most important thing. It is the rest of your lives together that matters. Focus on the love and commitment not a huge wedding day.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@PoetryNEmotion I wasn't going to ask them to pay f9r anything. I had my dream wedding.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@smileylovesgaming Well, they are saving for someone's baby. And you already had your dream wedding. Make this one different and lasting, girl. That's all.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@PoetryNEmotion yea my mom is pregnant. So they are saving for that