Please tell me I didn't just discover that my dad is having an affair or something

He was showing me a video, and some messages on messenger from a younger looking girl appeared that said : '' Thank you for your kindness my ❤ ''.
'' I.....My tender love ''.
He quickly pulled the little circle away, but he didn't look ashamed or something ?

Does this need an investigation on my part, or should I just ignore it to not discover something I don't want to know about ?

My father is my best friend and my role model, if I ever learn he's cheating on my mother, after 30 years of marriage, I will be so disappointed.

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Coralmist · 41-45, F

You know I asked this at EP last year, b/c I strongly believe my dad has cheated on my mom with a call girl- he was saying something to a friend on the phone about a woman that sounded VERY off to me:/ I never confronted him but my mom did when she found nail polish on his car; he denied anything (of course). I still believe he had some type of something on side and ppl told me at EP that I should 'stay out of it'... I did, but I still do not respect my dad a lot, b/c I have a strong notion of what may have went on. It's up to you I guess, and maybe you could notice if he is on his phone more often? I don't have a definite answer friend, I'm sorry... I am still wondering myself to bring it up to my dad.

ArwenPandora · 26-30, F

@Coralmist He's not really TALKING on his phone, he actually doesn't care about who calls or anything, but he sure does a lot of messaging.
I don't like where this is leading, but I'm scared of what I will discover.
You see...I really love my dad...

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@ArwenPandora Yes that's what I mean, if he is messaging a lot... I still don't have an answer.. follow your heart or gut