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Please tell me I didn't just discover that my dad is having an affair or something

He was showing me a video, and some messages on messenger from a younger looking girl appeared that said : '' Thank you for your kindness my ❤ ''.
'' I.....My tender love ''.
He quickly pulled the little circle away, but he didn't look ashamed or something ?

Does this need an investigation on my part, or should I just ignore it to not discover something I don't want to know about ?

My father is my best friend and my role model, if I ever learn he's cheating on my mother, after 30 years of marriage, I will be so disappointed.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
You know I asked this at EP last year, b/c I strongly believe my dad has cheated on my mom with a call girl- he was saying something to a friend on the phone about a woman that sounded VERY off to me:/ I never confronted him but my mom did when she found nail polish on his car; he denied anything (of course). I still believe he had some type of something on side and ppl told me at EP that I should 'stay out of it'... I did, but I still do not respect my dad a lot, b/c I have a strong notion of what may have went on. It's up to you I guess, and maybe you could notice if he is on his phone more often? I don't have a definite answer friend, I'm sorry... I am still wondering myself to bring it up to my dad.
ArwenPandora · 26-30, F
@Coralmist He's not really TALKING on his phone, he actually doesn't care about who calls or anything, but he sure does a lot of messaging.
I don't like where this is leading, but I'm scared of what I will discover.
You see...I really love my dad...
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@ArwenPandora Yes that's what I mean, if he is messaging a lot... I still don't have an answer.. follow your heart or gut
PeanutsauntieP1982 · 41-45, F
I'd investigate. That's sending up red flags in my mind.
ArwenPandora · 26-30, F
@PeanutsauntieP1982 I'm scared of what I will find
PeanutsauntieP1982 · 41-45, F
I would be too, but if I were in your position, the not knowing would drive me crazy.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
It could be innocent but he was was afraid it could be misconstrued..I wouldn't make a big thing about it.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
DiamondInTheMud · 31-35, M
If everything is alright at home with your mom why would you want to investigate.
ArwenPandora · 26-30, F
@DiamondInTheMud If everything is going alright, no one would be sending my tender love, and idk what
Wishingwellguy · 46-50, M
It's tough on you but " keep out "'you will get even more hurt
samanthabelle · 22-25, F
you already know the answer,, don't need Sherlock Holmes
Goralski · 51-55, M
Bury that shit deep
DistilledSpirit · 41-45, M
If not following up on it will bother you or affect your relationship with your father, then you should try to find an explanation. Otherwise, I'd give him the benefit of the doubt that you misread the situation and try to forget about it.
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uncalled4 · 56-60, M
You're better off not following up on that.

 
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