Humans are classified as "serial monogamists." This is a joke, to me, because "serial monogamy" is a lot closer to polyamory than it is true monogamy.
Humans aren't monogamous. If they were, the divorce rate wouldn't be 60%. And "cheating" would't be so prevelant.
Monogamy is uust socially enforced. It tries to cover up nature--reject human nature and try to hide it under a rug, while saying, "Oh, *I'm* different," or, "*S/he's* different.*
Understanding this, there's no reason to stay with one person. Humans are most fulfilled and healthy when they bounce from one partner to the next, rarely staying with one partner for more than 6 months to 2 years. Or have multiple partners at the same time. People would be a lot healthier if they did it that way, instead of trying to delude themselves and try to cover up their instincts. That's how they sneak up on you. You can try to deny that the sun will go down. But, all it will do is surprise and disillusion you when it inevitably does.
