What is the proper way to contact someone after a date?
In my 22 years, this is the first time I actually went on a date that I enjoyed. But now I don’t know how to react. Should I text her? 🤔 she hasn’t texted me, so maybe I shouldn’t... but how about if she’s thinking she shouldn’t either because I didn’t text her? Then we are just in a stalemate. I don’t want to come off as needy or annoying tho....
I would actually call her. If you had a good time, it's likely that she did too. The timeline makes no difference. If you do it soon, it serves to let her know that she is on your mind. To me, that would be a good thing
@666Maggotz Well then start gently by just letting her know you actually enjoyed the date and wouldn't mind doing it again. By having the courage to do that you are being the more mature person and not losing self esteem. Tell your logical mind to step forward and your imagination to take a back seat for now.
Possibly you enjoyed the date because she actually paid attention to you. If you want her to feel good then pay attention to her with a message.
I've always contacted people date or not to say I had fun and thank them for their time. I don't think anyone nowadays would think "wow I liked her but since she texted me so fast ew nvm" And if they don't, then who cares what they think anyways
Don’t make it into a game of chicken....she might also be insecure about contacting you. If nobody makes contact, you’ll never know.....better to know if she doesn’t want a 2nd date than to not find out because neither of you said anything.
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” -Wayne Gretzky
Dude, don't believe what Hollywood tells you regarding how long you should 'wait'.. if you had a good time with her, then tell her, then set up another date/activity and ask if she would be interested...
When did you went out with her? First date? I guess. I think you should wait 2 days before contacting her. If she texts you before the 2 days shes into you and you should text her back
I don't think there's anything wrong with saying to someone I had a great time and would like to see you again. But that's it. If they don't text back then leave it be any more is needy.
wait about 3/4 days, text her and ask for another date. Keeps the mystery going to some degree. If she reaches out in the interim then make another date.
Back to square one. Yeah text her. 3 years ago I was afraid to message the girl I liked and same for her and now we are engaged. You’ve got nothing to lose just be friendly! @666Maggotz