What is the proper way to contact someone after a date?

In my 22 years, this is the first time I actually went on a date that I enjoyed. But now I don’t know how to react. Should I text her? 🤔 she hasn’t texted me, so maybe I shouldn’t... but how about if she’s thinking she shouldn’t either because I didn’t text her? Then we are just in a stalemate. I don’t want to come off as needy or annoying tho....

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Wraithorn · 56-60, M

Just contact her. What have you got to lose ?

666Maggotz · F

My self esteem @Wraithorn

Wraithorn · 56-60, M

@666Maggotz Well then start gently by just letting her know you actually enjoyed the date and wouldn't mind doing it again.
By having the courage to do that you are being the more mature person and not losing self esteem.
Tell your logical mind to step forward and your imagination to take a back seat for now.

Possibly you enjoyed the date because she actually paid attention to you. If you want her to feel good then pay attention to her with a message.