I have a crush

It’s been a while since I’ve felt any stirring of romantic emotion.

He sent me his clean bill of STD health yesterday.

I liked him a lot before. Now I’m crushing hard.

I don’t want to give anyone that power again. I just wanted “fun, casual dates”

Whyyyy

Now I’m looking at my phone and telepathically willing him to text me instead of my specialty of not giving one speck of a fuck

I really thought I had it all locked down.

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twistedrope · 26-30, M

Best of luck. Being in a relationship can be fun, can be great. Communication strategies help too.

Just.. For me at least, I struggle with recognising defensiveness when I'm being open. Really painful when that happens.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

@twistedrope it’s hard for me to be open too. thanks!

Popobandar4 · 26-30, M

It's the cost you pay for every relationship,
Giving others the ability to influence your emotions and the ability to support qnd hurt you...
Then why you are afraid?
Are you too hurt to be with someone again?
Or you had made up your mind that you are going to line alone ?

Fallflower · 46-50, F

@Popobandar4 I guess I’m really tired of paying the price lol
fear sucks!
I do like living alone and this doesn’t threaten that… so that’s good.

eMortal · M

I hope the passion stays on. Usually when someone ask for a bill of STD even if it is clean and presented, romance dies.

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eMortal · M

@Fallflower Did you send him your own bill of STD? Let me guess, he never asked. That thought right is the bad seed that will grow in him, bit by bit. If I were you I would volunteer my own bill of STD.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

@eMortal oh I sent it immediately. he didn’t ask.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

@eMortal to be clear I didn’t ask for his either. we talked about it, yes, but i didn’t ask him to send me his results.

SW-User

Best of luck with it, you deserve to be happy

JackDaniels · 46-50, M

Good luck and have fun

Nick1 · 61-69, M

Good luck. Hope you both have fun.

dale74 · M

We all havr a desire to be wanted

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Wow, you asked him for proof that he has no STD? That is a bit of a novel approach. It is somewhat of an invitation to sex.

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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@Fallflower was it good? is it just sexual, or could it be a good emotional match?

Fallflower · 46-50, F

@samueltyler2 Seems to be a very good emotional match! If it was just sexual, I wouldn't be worried about my emotions 😁

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@Fallflower why worry, a turtle gets ahead, no pun intended, only when he/she puts its head out!

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