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Trying forgive toxic family and 2 rapist ex鈥檚 馃槄馃槴馃槴how can I forgive the betrayal?

If you forgave rapist or backstabbing toxic family or friends give me any tips 馃檹馃徏馃檹馃徏馃ス
Bklynbadboy1231-35, M
You forgive but you never forget. But even when you forgive you dont let them back into you life your a good woman and an even better friend. Move on with you life so you can find happiness cause you deserve it. I'm so proud of you cause you've been through so much and your still here you didnt let them break you. Your a stronge woman stronger that you think. Please don't ever change
AsianEyezChulaRp31-35, F
@Bklynbadboy12 I ain鈥檛 saying I am go up to them and say I forgive I just think that鈥檚 part of the chapter to do in my life so it heal even more and move on from this , thanks
Bklynbadboy1231-35, M
@AsianEyezChulaRp Your so welcome and im so proud of you
AsianEyezChulaRp31-35, F
4meAndyouF
Bklynbadboy said it best. You can forgive, but you never forget. Remembering is not a sin...it is a warning to your heart and mind so that you will never trust those people again.

I found that, for me, it took many years to forgive. 20 or more, in some cases.
AsianEyezChulaRp31-35, F
@4meAndyou agree he did say it good , but I feel like it will help me heal and move once I forgive childhood once been decades and adult been over decades the first one last one last year soo it鈥檚 been tough I know everyone鈥檚 different with sexual assault
SW-User
No need too, fuck them馃ズ
KK481726-30, F
Ur just deluded if u forgive those people
Amylynne26-30, F
this is hard to belive, and i didnt

you must fogive the, then once done the can fade from your life
continued anger and hatred is intimacy
SW-User
Forgiving doesn't mean you have to let them gave access to you
AsianEyezChulaRp31-35, F
@SW-User i know i said forgive not tell them I forgive lol plus I feel if I forgive it鈥檚 be letting go of that anger and hate
olderuncle94470-79, M
@AsianEyezChulaRp That its very true you will be happier if you forgive just don't forget, forgiving is not the same as trusting.
496sbc36-40, M
So sorry hun but guess why dont forgive a rappist. No sir sir sir. Unacceptable
rayoflight46-50, M
No need to forgive. Just be thankful for the good people in your life now...
Guardian56-60, M
WHY would you feel compelled to forgive EITHER? I WOULDN'T! IDGAF!!!
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AsianEyezChulaRp31-35, F
@Emarky yes thanks

 
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