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I Can't Get Over My Boyfriend Cheating On Me

I thought my heart was broken before... i recently found out my fiancé has been cheating on me since we lost our baby. he’s been spending more and more time at “work”- he told me this was a good way to keep his mind off of Madelyn. as i am laying in bed every night crying at the loss of my sweet girl; he is out screwing another woman. He told me, she can give him something i can’t, as if the miscarriage was MY FAULT. my heart is hurting 😭💔.
XReaganX · 26-30, F
Wtf?! [i]*gives you my hitman's business card*[/i]

I'm so sorry, but the nerve of him!
lol1233 · 26-30, F
@XReaganX 😔😔😔😔
XReaganX · 26-30, F
@lol1233 🤗 You're precious you know? I'm so sorry.
im sorry what happened. i just dont understand how someone can be cold to cheat on someone because something like that happened unless he never cared to begin with
lol1233 · 26-30, F
@badapple i’m going to go with, he never cared to begin with.
sorry for that. you are young and a lot of young relationships seem to be that way. mostly based on hormones.
LG1976 · 46-50, F
Badmouthing your fiancé won’t help so I will keep those opinions to myself. You are dealing with a profound loss, and while you deserve the love and support of your fiancé, you’re clearly not getting it. Surround yourself with friends or family who will there for you and focus on healing your heart, mind, and body. Praying for you. xo
lol1233 · 26-30, F
@LG1976 i’ve learned that myself! kill them with kindness! i loved him with all my being at one point in time, so there’s really no point in bashing him. he did what he did for himself to heal, now it’s time for me to do what i need to do to heal. i will defenitly be breaking things off with him & surrounding myself with more loving people, as i have pushed so many people away bc he manipulated me into believing he is the ONLY person in my life. thank you for ur support love!💕
I don’t know the personal pain of losing a precious child. I can’t imagine the personal betrayal of your fiancé in addition to your tremendous loss.

Do you have any professional counseling resources that you can go to in the community ?

It could be too overwhelming to overcome this by yourself.
lol1233 · 26-30, F
@SomeLikeItHot this all just went down with him, i tried to convince him to go to a couples therapy session but “he was so busy with work” in reality cheating— however he said he had no free time to do that with me. within the next few days i will be finding somewhere for myself to go.
@lol1233
I am glad to hear that you aren’t waiting for couples counseling. He seems to be comfortable with his actions and doesn’t deserve what you can provide for him, something real.
lasergraph · 70-79, M
I would say he should stay gone and is not worth your effort to even talk with him. He is using the loss of a child as justification to cheat. He is a lowlife and you don't need him.
SW-User
@lol1233 It is NOT your fault.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@lol1233 Well sorry there no explaining this get out and get out now have some respect for yourself.
@lol1233 lasergraph is right. its not your fault. just because certain needs arent met is no excuse for cheating. everyone has a choice and he was making wrong choices.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well I am sorry this is happening to you. But it's time to kick out your husband and move on. Where in the world does he get off blaming you.Sad things like this happen sometime through no fault of the mom.
lol1233 · 26-30, F
@updown2020 we will be separating.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@lol1233 Well I hope you get the house if you do I have some tips for you.
Ohh sweety. Sorry to hear that. For me disloyalty and cheating is something unbearable and unforgivable. I wish you to get over your pain and move on. It's always about moving on 💔🥺 stay strong <3
lol1233 · 26-30, F
@Minzz thank you for your encouraging words. 💝
SW-User
This is very heartbreaking.
There is no saying why some people do what they do.
Just that they burn you recklessly and all you can do is try pick up the pieces and survive.
lol1233 · 26-30, F
that’s what i’m gonna be foing day by day, i will never understand. @SW-User
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SW-User
He's an absolute unacceptable asshole.

you deserve, and will find, better.
lol1233 · 26-30, F
@SW-User maybe i dis deserve rhis.
SW-User
@lol1233 Never ever do you deserve this kind of treatment.

Ever!!
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Gee I would leave him and never look back.
lol1233 · 26-30, F
i plan on doing so. @smileylovesgaming
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@lol1233 if he is that heartless I would
JP1119 · 36-40, M
Maybe you should consider breaking off the engagement.
lol1233 · 26-30, F
@JP1119 as hard as it’ll be, i plan on doing so.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Take time to get over him. Cheated on is the worst feeling ever.
Jasondf · M
@lol1233 there’s nothing I can say to make it better. If I could I would. Just know I think this situation you have is shitty. I lost a daughter and it sucks..

You deserve better.
lol1233 · 26-30, F
it still feels like yesterday... i will never forget it. i am so sorry for your loss, it’s a pain no one should ever go through. my thoughts & prayers are with you.@Jasondf
Jasondf · M
@lol1233 sane 🙏✌️
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I'm so sorry. 😔
lol1233 · 26-30, F
thank you, i appreciate it!@SweetMae
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lol1233 · 26-30, F
@Unavaliable i’m the idiot here. for believing a man could change.
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