I Can't Get Over My Boyfriend Cheating On Me

I thought my heart was broken before... i recently found out my fiancé has been cheating on me since we lost our baby. he’s been spending more and more time at “work”- he told me this was a good way to keep his mind off of Madelyn. as i am laying in bed every night crying at the loss of my sweet girl; he is out screwing another woman. He told me, she can give him something i can’t, as if the miscarriage was MY FAULT. my heart is hurting 😭💔.

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SomeLikeItHot ·

I don’t know the personal pain of losing a precious child. I can’t imagine the personal betrayal of your fiancé in addition to your tremendous loss.

Do you have any professional counseling resources that you can go to in the community ?

It could be too overwhelming to overcome this by yourself.

lol1233 · 26-30, F

@SomeLikeItHot this all just went down with him, i tried to convince him to go to a couples therapy session but “he was so busy with work” in reality cheating— however he said he had no free time to do that with me. within the next few days i will be finding somewhere for myself to go.

SomeLikeItHot ·

@lol1233
I am glad to hear that you aren’t waiting for couples counseling. He seems to be comfortable with his actions and doesn’t deserve what you can provide for him, something real.