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Older Women Are in Demand by Younger Men

New York Times
Apr-16-2026

Younger men are increasingly seeking out older women — and it’s not just a dating trend. It’s a shift in power, desire and modern masculinity.

In this episode of “The Opinions,” the Opinion culture editor Nadja Spiegelman talks with the writer and psychoanalyst Jamieson Webster and Emily Leibert, a staff writer at The Cut, about why age-gap relationships are so popular and whether they signal liberation, backlash or something more complicated.

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/04/16/opinion/younger-men-dating-older-women.html
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lissah · 36-40, F
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
@lissah 😘😘😘
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
@MrSmooTh Best answer!
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
They use us 😂 been there done that...

They want a mommy
@ScreamingFox

They want a mommy until they grow up and want to be a daddy.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@splishsplash yeah it's clearly not a long term relationship considering I'll be an invalid when they are ready to peak either lol

I'm assuming unless money is involved, he isn't in love with you, he's just syphoning experience from you...
It's all fine and well until the guy wants to start a family and then dumps "older woman" for a younger one. > Ashton Kutcher
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
It may not be that new. An older woman "made a man" of me in the 70s.
Magenta · F
I do like some of the reasons they gave.

But I've always preferred the man be older than I. I may go a few years but not more than ten, IF I were dating.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
Mother substitutes?
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Or perhaps financially broke....
exexec · 70-79, C
The younger men who were after my wife when she was in her 30's only had one thing in mind.
Quimliqer · 70-79, MVIP
Or perhaps it’s younger guys are in demand by older women?
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Age gap relationships are constantly in flux. It's hard to say what is popular or not because it's changing that much.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Us older 'officially mature' men (I'm 57) are smart enough to know that dating and marriage brings no rewards (for men) so we just stop doing it and move along with life.
Persephonee · 26-30, F
why age-gap relationships are so popular

What on earth does this mean? You don't choose who you fall in love with (or even who you hook up with). "Popularity" has nothing to do with it.

Relationships aren't fashion. 🤦‍♀
Northwest · M
@zonavar68

But weddings are totally 100 percent only about the woman - that doesn't need experiences to validate.

Once more, an opinion.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Northwest Only because you disagree. Facts don't care if you don't like them. I'm not saying my opinion is fact, but there's more than enough anecdotal evidence to lend weight to it being more likely true than not based on the balance of probabilities.
Northwest · M
@zonavar68
I'm not saying my opinion is fact, but there's more than enough anecdotal evidence

I'll wait until you come up wth some.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
I don't seek out older women I just end up with who I end up with 🤷 oftentimes they're just slightly older than me but never much. Idk, maybe I just feel like women younger than me don't really have the same priorities or know what exactly they're looking for yet. & That stuff is pretty big to me
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Jrzgrl · 56-60, F
@jshm2 or laid

 
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