How to deal with having an extroverted boyfriend while I'm quite introverted?
He goes out almost everyday and i feel inadequate and left out at home. But going everyday with him and his friends drains my energy
31-35, F
That can be tough. He gets all excited about seeing his friends and all you can think about it how alone it makes you feel. He probably flirts with the ladies too but doesn't do it nearly as much as when you are with him.
His friends probably have all kinds of dirt on him but won't tell you.
Then you stand around trying to fit in but feeling like a third wheel. You have no idea what he tells your friends about you either, maybe all those secrets you have together are only secret from you.
On the other hand, maybe he is a really nice honest guy that never tells his friends secrets, would never flirt with another woman and never does anything wrong.
His friends probably have all kinds of dirt on him but won't tell you.
Then you stand around trying to fit in but feeling like a third wheel. You have no idea what he tells your friends about you either, maybe all those secrets you have together are only secret from you.
On the other hand, maybe he is a really nice honest guy that never tells his friends secrets, would never flirt with another woman and never does anything wrong.
NewWorldToronto · 51-55, M
I think the two of you can get along fine. Just only attend those outings you feel comfortable with to ensure you maintain your energy.
Tellmeaboutyourself · 31-35, F
@val70 thankyou for your reply. Im still contemplating whether it is my insecurity or does he need any piece of my mind before coming very harsh or insensitive
CactusJackManson · 51-55, M
Put out more
Ramrod · 46-50, M
Change boyfriends, find one that is more like you ???