Sometimes I wonder is my husband dragging me down.

I wonder if my husband is dragging me down. I used to help him so much financially. And now he is helping me but we are still renting and he saves barley any money over the course of five years he has saved one thousand dollars. He makes a lot more then I do and i have saved more money then him. He often breaks things by accident so we have to buy new things he claims he is clumsy. He complains that every time he saves money he needs dad to use it for an emergency. We go to therapy together but that does not seem to help. He thinks he is good with money he thinks he just does not get paid enough. He just uses his money on not important things like smoking and drinking. I just dont know what to do about this situation because i feel it will never change .